Psychology Says Be Her Best Friend. Jen Says Be Her Mother.
Modern parenting often treats kids like projects—charts, rewards, quick fixes that feel hollow. The Bible’s way centers who children are, relationships, and steady rhythms: modeling, loving boundaries, and shaping character, not just compliance.
I tried charts and incentives; they stopped whining briefly but made us mechanically obedient and emotionally distant. Switching to biblical parenting meant slowing down, modeling mercy and humility, and teaching identity first (“you are loved and can grow”). Boundaries came from care, and discipline from grace.
It didn’t fix everything immediately, but it brought real connection, less chaos, and kids who understand why we do things. Modern tools help, but rooted in relationship and soul formation, change lasts.
Violent Acts
Are parents responsible for their children’s actions? Saying yes too much can lead to entitlement. Say no more often to your child.
The “Whoosh” of Panic
Even when we feel shaken, God has already seen the situation and overcome.
The Joy Bond
Would your kids describe you as grumpy or happy? The perception our kids have of us may matter more than you think.
Excellence is Uncomfortable
Most of us want to be outstanding in whatever we do. But do we have what it takes?
Be true to yourself or be a servant?
The message to "follow your heart" surrounds us...how does that clichéhelp us have an awesome marriage?
I Chose to Love My Home
The atmosphere of our homes is far more important than what it looks like.